Good day everyone and welcome to another day of blogging through the book of Proverbs 😊
Today we look at chapter 13 and I’ll be focusing on verse 3 and 20

“Guard your words and you’ll guard your life, but if you don’t control your tongue, it will ruin everything.” (Proverbs 13:3 TPT)
Once again Solomon emphasizes the power of our words. He reminds us that the words we speak have a direct effect on our lives — they can either preserve us or bring destruction. Even though the tongue is such a small part of the body, its influence is enormous. A lack of control over it can damage everything: friendships, marriages, families, careers, and more.
Our words are incredibly powerful. They can build up or tear down, heal or wound. That’s why we must use them carefully and ensure they are motivated by love, not anger.
Before speaking, take a moment to reflect: Is what I’m about to say coming from a place of love? Will it encourage or destroy? If the answer is no, consider remaining silent until you have something good and helpful to say. Exercising restraint is a sign of wisdom and self-control.
“If you want to grow in wisdom, spend time with the wise. Walk with the wicked and you’ll eventually become just like them.” (Proverbs 13:20 TPT)
There’s a saying I often heard growing up: “Show me your friends and I’ll tell you who you are.” In other words, the company you keep will shape who you become. Solomon echoes this truth here — if you want to become wise, spend time with wise people. You cannot consistently surround yourself with foolish influences and expect to grow in wisdom.
Who are the people in your circle? Are they helping you grow in wisdom and become more like Christ, or are they leading you toward foolishness?
Choose your words carefully and choose your company wisely — both are essential to living a godly life.
Thanks for joining me on this journey.
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