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John 12 – Extravagant love & deep surrender

Good day everyone, and welcome back to our journey through the book of John! 😊 Today we’re diving into chapter 12, and my prayer is that as we reflect together, God’s Word will bring encouragement, guidance, and fresh revelation for our daily walk.

Chapter 12 opens with a beautiful scene in Bethany. Jesus is visiting the home of Lazarus, the same Lazarus whom He raised from the dead in chapter 11. This moment is filled with gratitude, love, and worship. Each person in the household expresses honour and love to Jesus in a different way, and the details are so intentional and profound.

Martha is serving, as she often does. This is her love language, serving Jesus with her hands and her energy. Lazarus is reclining at the table with Jesus, a living testimony of resurrection power and a reminder to everyone present of the miracle-working God standing in their midst. And Mary pours out a jar of expensive perfume, anointing Jesus’ feet and wiping them with her hair. Her act was intimate, costly, and deeply worshipful.

I love that Scripture highlights the differences between the three of them, each expressing love to Jesus uniquely, yet sincerely. It reminds me that we all have different ways of showing devotion to God. Worship is not a competition. The true measure is the sincerity of our hearts.

But not everyone celebrated Mary’s extravagant worship. Judas—who would later betray Jesus—criticized her, claiming the perfume should have been sold and given to the poor. Of course, he wasn’t truly concerned for the poor; Scripture tells us he was stealing from the money bag. His heart couldn’t comprehend such love.

From this I learned something important: not everyone will understand your devotion to God. Some will criticize. Some will judge. Some will question your sacrifice or the way you honour God. But don’t let that stop you. Jesus sees your heart, He values your worship, and He will defend you just as He defended Mary.

As the story unfolds, many people flocked to see Jesus and Lazarus, the living evidence of His power. This made the religious leaders furious. Their jealousy and hatred had blinded them so deeply that they even plotted to kill Lazarus. Imagine plotting murder because people were turning to God! It shows how easily a heart consumed by envy and pride can drift from truth.

Later in the chapter, Jesus enters Jerusalem riding on a donkey, fulfilling prophecy. The crowds shouted “Hosanna!” yet verse 16 tells us that the disciples didn’t fully understand these events until after Jesus was glorified. This stood out to me—the Holy Spirit is the One who helps us understand God’s work, even when it doesn’t make sense in the moment. What seems confusing today may make complete sense later when the Holy Spirit brings clarity.

Later in the chapter, Jesus makes some profound and challenging statement in verse 25 & 26:

These words are challenging and liberating at the same time. Jesus isn’t telling us to hate ourselves or live recklessly. He’s teaching us that following Him requires dying to our own agenda and laying aside self-centred desires. To follow Jesus is to surrender control—to choose His way over ours. It’s a daily invitation to trust Him completely.

The Life Application Study Bible puts it beautifully:
“We must be so committed to living for Jesus that we “care nothing” for our lives by comparison. This does not mean that we long to die or that we are careless or destructive with the lives God has given us, but rather that we are willing to die if doing so will glorify Christ. We must disown the tyrannical rule of our own self-centeredness. By laying aside our striving for advantage, security, and pleasure, we can serve God lovingly and freely. Releasing control of our lives and transferring control to Jesus brings eternal life and genuine joy”.

Verse 26 continues by reminding us that to serve Jesus means to stay close to Him, imitate Him, and follow Him wholeheartedly. And then comes the promise: the Father will honor those who serve Him. What a beautiful assurance! God Himself honours and favours those who choose to follow Christ fully.

Toward the end of the chapter, Jesus reminds us once again that He is the Light of the world. Light exposes, reveals, clarifies, and guides. When we walk in the light, when we follow Jesus we cannot be overtaken by darkness.

His invitation is simple but life-changing: Walk in the light. Trust in the Light. Become children of the Light.

Have you made the commitment to follow Him today? His arms are open. His light is shining. His call remains the same: Follow Me. And the promise still stands—the Father will honor you.

Today is a great day to say, “Lord, I choose You. I follow You. I lay down my way for Yours.”

Thank you so much for joining me in our study of John 12. I’d love to hear from you—what stood out to you the most in this chapter? Share your reflections in the comments so we can continue growing together in faith.

Proverbs 31- Servant Leadership

Good day everyone, and welcome back to our journey through the book of Proverbs! 😊 Each chapter has been filled with timeless wisdom, and today we’re diving into Proverbs 31 — the final chapter! My prayer is that as we reflect together, God’s Word will bring encouragement, guidance, and fresh revelation for your daily walk.

As we come to the end of Proverbs, I want to thank you for journeying through this book with me. It has truly been a joy to study and share these insights with you. I’m still seeking the Lord’s direction on what book to explore next — a part of me feels drawn to the Gospels, perhaps beginning with John. But as always, I’ll trust His leading.

Now, let’s dive into today’s passage.

In these verses, we hear the wise counsel of a mother to her son, a king. She urges him not to waste his strength on destructive pleasures but instead to use his position to bring justice and defend the vulnerable.

What stands out to me is this: leadership and influence are not for self-gain but for serving others. This is the same truth Jesus taught when He said, “I came not to be served but to serve.” In Matthew 20, He reminded His disciples:

“Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first among you must become your slave.” Matthew 20:26–27 (NLT)

Jesus modelled servant leadership — humbling Himself, washing His disciples’ feet, and putting the needs of others before His own. True greatness in God’s kingdom is not about status but about service.

Nowadays, those in positions of power or leadership desire to be served rather than to serve. But Scripture reminds us that our influence is entrusted to us so we can help, defend, and uplift others — especially those who cannot speak for themselves. This call to defend the helpless and pursue justice isn’t limited to kings or rulers; it’s a charge to every believer.

We are called to love justice, to stand up for what is right, and to act with humility. We cannot see injustice and turn away simply because it doesn’t affect us personally. God calls us to be His hands and voice — to speak up, to protect, and to show His heart of compassion to the world.

I pray that we will all seek to follow Jesus’ example of servant leadership — to use our positions, however small or great, to lift others up and bring God’s justice and love into every situation.

Thank you for joining me today! 😊 I’d love to hear how Proverbs 31 spoke to you — share your thoughts or reflections in the comments below so we can continue to grow together.

✨Here are some reflection questions to ponder on:

🌿 Reflection Questions:

  1. In what areas of your life has God given you influence or leadership, and how can you use that position to serve others?
  1. Are there people around you who need your voice — someone you can “speak up” for or stand beside in love and justice?
  2. How can you model Jesus’ example of servant leadership in your home, workplace, or community this week?

Once again, thank you for journeying with me through the book of Proverbs. I know I have gleaned a lot of wisdom, and I trust you have too 😊.

We will be taking a short break for a week and will resume on November 3rd with a new book of the Bible to study together. Stay tuned and stay blessed! 🙏